HEY. STOP SCROLLING AND GET SOME SELF-RESPECT! READ ON TO SEE HOW.
Spoiler: You Won't Make It Out of This Game Alive
This page is going to get good, but to qualify for that part, first you need to read through the tough love bit. Because the more you scroll on social media, the shorter your life gets. Let's stop that. Let's give you back your life. Ready?
Life has no guarantees except death.
No amount of people-pleasing or playing small changes that.
You're a goner. It's 100% guaranteed.
And if you're too much of a wimp for that level of truth, don't buy from me, don't learn from me, and block me everywhere, because my purpose is to make sure that while you're here YOU LIVE.
And to understand that, you've got to understand that your time is limited, and you need a sense of urgency.
So, are you too much of a wimp for this message, or are you ready for some wisdom?
BREATHE LIFE INTO ME!
"Seriously, I just want to put it out there that Rebecca Bardess is a total legend and reminds me the world is full of people who think like you if you just look.
She's a fantastic coach, mentor, and all round good egg!
You have taught me lots, now it's time to unleash it all."
HOLLY MATTHEWS
ACTRESS, SINGER, AUTHOR, COACH
Pic © Holly Matthews
I Helped Holly Through The Death of Her Husband, And Reminded Her How Great She Is. She's Now Helping People Be Happy No Matter What
When Holly coached with me, her husband had a brain tumour and was dying.
I helped her through this difficult time, and helped her to visualise a different path in life, helping other women to make it through whatever life threw at them, even when what it threw seemed impossible to overcome. She took massive action, found partners to help her with this vision, and transformed her career and life.
She now runs The Happy Me Project, and is an award-winning Author, having won
LET ME GUESS...
You once had self-respect. Then something happened.
First, you had self-doubt.
Then you lost your sense of self-worth.
Then you lost your self-respect.
Now, you want it back.
At some point, you lost someone or something that mattered to you so much that you didn't know how to go on without that person or thing.
What was it?
The first thing that came into your mind may have been the thing.
And along with the loss of that person or thing, you lost something else: your self-respect.
Life hit you so hard that self-doubt crept in and urged you to play small, speak quiet, and go along with the crowd.
But, inside, there is a lion or lioness roaring, and it has its own plans. It sees its own path. It knows its own mind. But you don't trust it. Yet. Would you like to trust it?
You've probably found yourself questioning your inner voice, and worrying about fitting in:
- You weren't born to fit in. You were born to stand out. And you can stand out, with the right help and the self-respect that is your birthright.
- Are you trying to make it online with your own business, or as an artist or writer, but nobody in your family has done this before? You need a community of people who understand and will have your back.
- Have you tried before and failed? Have you been laughed at and diminished? Join the club! That's part of the journey. But the trolls and naysayers only get to win if you give up. They lose when you win.
- But what if there's something about you that makes you the one person who can't have success or self-respect? There isn't. You're as human as the rest of us. Keep reading and you'll see why you can trust us to help you.
WHEN YOUR WORLD IS FALLING APART, THAT'S WHEN YOU HAVE TO WORK THE HARDEST ON PULLING YOURSELF TOGETHER.
Life throws things at you that you don't expect, and you don't have time to prepare for them when it happens.
If someone you love dies, and you have to organise the funeral, there isn't time to take a 3 month course to give you the courage to do that. You've just got to do your best and hope you make it through.
Wouldn't it be better if you already knew you could do it?
Are you already enough of a badass to handle a chronic illness or a lost business, or a divorce?
When's the best time to take a self-defence class? Before or after you get attacked? Before, right? Otherwise, you don't know what to do, and you lack the strength to do it. Same here. We teach self-defence for the soul and mind.
IT'S IN TIMES OF UNCERTAINTY THAT WE MUST BE MOST CERTAIN OF OUR ABILITY TO OVERCOME OBSTACLES AND THRIVE, NO MATTER WHAT.
I'm Rebecca Bardess, and at the time of writing this is the week I buried my father.
In the midst of my grief, and all kinds of family and other drama, I stood at a podium in a huge church and read a three page eulogy to the congregation.
My voice never shook.
I shed not one tear.
Although I felt endless emotions, I could show up as my strongest self, and hold space for all the people who needed to grieve and celebrate the life of a great man together.
And I did this after a good night's sleep, and without having denied any of my emotions, because I'd kept my mental and physical health, and habits, on track throughout.
Could you do that?
You might think you can't, because you're an empath or a Highly Sensitive Person, who can feel not only your own emotions but everyone else's too.
Same.
Maybe you think you can't because you've had so much trauma in your life that you have cPTSD.
Same.
You can still do this.
By all means get therapy too, but don't let people lie to you about how strong you really are.
And don't let anyone lie to you that becoming a victim to your labels will protect you from life or from death, because the opposite is the case.
It isn't that you shouldn't show emotion. It's that you need to master emotional regulation to stay safe and to keep others safe.
Adult toddlers are a liability. They can't handle how complicated life is, or how suddenly things can change.
Life is hard.
Look at the title of this cohort: Resurrect Your Self-Respect. For something to be resurrected, it must first die.
I came up with the idea for RYSR a year ago, during Easter 2023.
I prayed for inspiration about what I should do over the holiday. I hoped for: "Eat chocolate" but, instead, the whole plan for this was delivered to me, along with the title.
I thought of Jesus, of course, but I also thought of spring bulbs, seemingly dead all winter, that rise back to life in the spring. No matter what your beliefs, nature tells us each year the lessons of resurrection.
And one thing that is often lost these days, and which is crying out to be brought back from the darkness and into the light, is self-respect.
The rise of Selfie Culture, Only Fans, pron addiction, online scams, and the manosphere matrix are not signs of self-respect. People don't surrender their personal boundaries, and become blindly subject to the rules of others from a place of self-respect.
Maybe a handful of people in these spheres are there from a place of autonomy and self-actualisation, but that isn't the energy of them and it isn't what is happening for most people.
We come to this planet with self-respect. We dream big dreams as tiny people. It doesn't occur to us that we can't become an astronaut AND a rock star AND the inventor of a new language AND an athlete AND a doctor AND a scientist.
But then life happens, and trauma and rejection bury our confidence, self-worth, and even self-respect.
Well, it's time to resurrect that self-respect!
"It's definitely worth it.
I remember buying those 12 week packages and looking forward every week for direction.
She said she saw something in me that I could not see.
She said I would become bigger than many people and I thought it was just BS.
She was right... She definitely has a gift."
GIANI B
ENTREPRENEUR AND FORMER PRO ATHLETE
For more on the story of how I helped Giani, go here (opens in new window).
Pics © Grant Cardone TV
Imagine if...
- You knew the exact steps to take to magic up powerfully charismatic confidence when you'd usually feel self-doubt.
- You had a presence that makes everyone notice you when you walk into a room (and not just cringe paint-by-numbers ego rizz).
- You could finally stand your ground when someone said or did something that was out of integrity and they'd respect you for holding them accountable.
- You didn't have to suck up to the usual crowd to feel confident because you know you will be fine even if you're the stand alone.
What if you weren't on this journey alone. A cohort of people just as committed as you to resurrecting their self-respect are waiting for you to join them. And you don't have to compromise who you are to be part of this team. Come as you are. Work on what matters most to you. We've got your back.
WHAT IF YOU COULD RESURRECT YOUR SELF-RESPECT IN TIME FOR THE 4TH OF JULY?
And, if you're in America, imagine showing up for the family celebration with so much more self-respect than you had at Thanksgiving, regardless of what anyone says or does.
WHAT IF I HANDED YOU THE KEYS TO LIFE CHANGING, AUTHENTIC, SELF-RESPECT RIGHT NOW?
In the spring of 2020, I had a profound Near-Death Experience.
I was one of the first people in the country to catch the mysterious virus that would alter life for all of us over the next few years.
As I drew what I realized was my last breath (the oxygen was no longer hitting), unable to get help from anyone, I saw a spirit at the end of my bed. It was me.
That part of me asked me to ask to stay here. I/she held up a screenshot of a community that I'd been talking about launching, and communicated to me that I still had people to help.
Knowing I had only a couple of minutes left, if that, these words came into my head:
Lord God,
Make me a channel for Your Peace and Your Power.
Breathe life into me,
That I can breathe life into others,
That they can breathe life into their dreams,
And manifest them on the planet,
By Thy Will.
The next second, I could breathe.
Unlike other coaches, I'm not doing this work to get famous or to impress whomever is the current person everyone is impressed with online.
I don't care about that stuff.
It's a revolving door.
I've been online since 1986, and I started the Internet Marketing industry. The cast changes every season.
I'm doing this work, because I told God I would.
And, no, you needn't believe in God to get involved. I respect your path.
But you must be prepared to find something greater than your ego by which to be inspired, or you'll only rise as high as self-confidence, not as high as self-worth, and definitely not to a place of unflinching self-respect.
Unlike other programs that pump you up for just long enough for you to part with your cash, Resurrect Your Self-Respect works because we're digging below ego to true core level self-worth.
So you will have tools to respect yourself, no matter what the crowd thinks of you.
I'M READY TO RESURRECT MY SELF-RESPECT!
I WANT YOU TO FEEL THE LEVEL OF BELIEF MY CLIENTS HAVE WHEN THEY BREAK THROUGH THEIR LIMITATIONS AND STEP INTO TRUE SELF-RESPECT AND SELF-WORTH
Gary Vee is fond of telling you that you have all the time in the world, but you've no idea how long you have.
I nearly checked out in 2020, and before that back in the 80s when I was 11.
You don't know how many tomorrows you have.
But you have now.
And now is the time to act.
Let's get your self-respect back, so you can shine as bright as God or the Universe, or however you see your Creator intended you to shine.
INTRODUCING...
The 12 week cohort that will hand back the self-respect you lost years ago, so you can become the strong, purposeful, force of nature you were always meant to be.
YES, I NEED THIS!By the end of Resurrect Your Self-Respect, you'll have learnt how to:
- Identify your emotions and interpret them in a way that realigns them with your intuitions and instincts. Get clarity, so you can stop acting out or feeling disempowered.
- Discover your divine purpose. Experience the peace and power that a life directed by Purpose gives you. You're meant for more than scrolling.
- Establish a disciplined schedule without getting stuck in a fixed mindset
- Develop close relationships that respect you both, and help you grow.
And you'll be able to achieve all of this with one extra invaluable resource... ME!
Unlike other courses and programs that leave you without so much as an email address to reach out to... I'll be with you throughout the 12 modules!
HERE'S WHAT'S INSIDE:
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INSPIRATION
The course materials will be delivered to your library, taking you through each week's lessons and giving you a resource to refer back to throughout the cohort.
VIDEO AND AUDIO TUTORIALS
We will meet every week for live trainings and Q and A throughout the cohort. Make sure you go through the core trainings and bring your questions for the best results.
STUDENT COMMUNITY
You'll get access to our online coffee shop, the Indiepreneur Academy Clockerfly Nation app.
Here, you can catch up with other students as well as others in our community, plus you'll have a private chatroom, just for others who are going through Resurrect Your Self-Respect.
Thank you Rebecca Bardess for helping me to find the skills to find the joy that I was missing from my universe.
DANIEL B
ENTREPRENEUR
WIN!
WIN!
WIN!
I had the great fortune and blessing to have my session with Rebecca today.
After our conversation, I know for sure I'm in the right place at the right time!
It was like speaking with a long lost sister who had been keeping tabs on me through a special multi-dimensional 'magic mirror.
In everything she shared, and every topic we discussed, it was as if the stage had been carefully set just for me, customized to my life.
All not just relevant, but SPOT-ON!
By the end of the conversation, I possessed not only clarity, but certainty!
Thank you so much Rebecca for your time, your world-class professional skill, and your profound gifts.
I'm looking forward to working with you as my guide, my coach, and my mentor!
JOHN TURNER
ENTREPRENEUR
My win today and the last week... I paid attention to Rebecca's email.
Her emails are so natural and her words are full of care.
That's who I want to be. I look forward to meeting you all and most of all growing together.
We ended our call with Rebecca telling me to go out and share my joy, my love of life, and be generous.
We've heard those words a million times. This time it clicked.
The week since we talked I was able to write a lot freer and be more aware of my 'critical thinking.
All I want to say... YAHOO!
BERNADETTE LEE
EDUCATOR AND ADVENTURER
I wasn't sure how you were going to do it but you did.. Rebecca you really do deliver.
I thought she will never top what shes already taught. But It just keeps getting better. The best part is I can listen to these modules over and over buy far then best money I have ever spent online on any course or any training so Thank you so much. And to think I considered not buying this glad I pulled my head out of my A....
JAMES C
ENTREPRENEUR
"Rebecca rocks and totally helped me have an amazing breakthrough in creating content."
JOSHUA S
COACH AND ENTREPRENEUR
"I am forever grateful for Rebecca Bardess! When I was just starting out, after floundering around and overwhelmed with the online world, I decided to invest in myself and hired Rebecca as my coach... BEST THING I HAVE DONE! After that I have had other coaches, yet I can honestly say that Rebecca under promises and over delivers EVERY TIME!!! She saw my strengths, when I didn't see ANY, and helped me develop confidence and realize the value. She taught me sales funnel creation, finding the target audience, and SO much more. I would recommend her as a coach in a heartbeat."
JANE O
ENTREPRENEUR
"If you're like me and fed up being a business operator instead of a business owner then I strongly advise you to roll up your sleeves and get to work. The VALUE here is off the charts!"
ROBIN M
AUTHOR AND ENTREPRENEUR
'Chef Katrina'
Entrepreneur and Community Leader
YOU. CAN. DO. THIS.
Following memes and dreams on social media is a waste of time. You're scrolling your life away.
You have a deep purpose to fulfil on the planet that you may not even have discovered yet.
Maybe you try to avoid even thinking about it because it feels too big of a deal, or you don't think you have a unique gift to share.
Or maybe you've done some things that you aren't too proud of, and you think you can't turn that around and become as great and as worthy of self-respect as you'd like.
Maybe it feels too complicated or you don't know where to start.
That's where this program comes in. I've broken it all down for you, so that it's simple, strategic, and straightforward.
Seriously, it really is much easier than you think!
You could spend years, spending $$,$$$s on thrown together courses by thrown together amateur coaches, or you could spend way less money and time with someone who's been helping people with these since the start of the internet.
FOR JUST $597, YOU COULD BE ON THE PATH TO RECLAIMING YOUR RIGHTFUL SELF-RESPECT TODAY.
The people you love deserve the version of you that you respect.
The best relationship you could have will call for the version of you that is most worthy of your own respect.
And you deserve your own respect.
The fact that you've read this far shows you're someone with the ability to commit to something that can help make you a better you.
So, what are you waiting for?
"You're an impressive person! I love your energy, style, and wise insights. I also love your book. "
JOE VITALE
STAR OF THE MOVIE THE SECRET, AUTHOR, LAW OF ATTRACTION AND MARKETING LEGEND
Pic © Dr Joe Vitale
And just who will be teaching you Resurrect Your Self-Respect?
Me! I'm Rebecca Bardess
DOT COM PIONEER, MAKING MONEY ONLINE SINCE 1995, COACHING AND CONSULTING ENTREPRENEURS FOR 25 YEARS.
I wrote my first book at 3, started coaching when I was 4, and came up with my first business plan at 6. Plus, I was a seriously spooky child. My poor mother had the worst time trying to explain away the conversations I was having with ghosts as my one-sided discussions with gaps for replies played out across dinner parties across the baby monitor.
Have you ever felt that insistent drive to create something, that just won't let you rest? Cutting and pasting the pictures into that first book, because I couldn't write properly yet felt totally beneath me. I tried to write a dedication at the front of the book, but my writing was barely legible.
Do you feel that way, cutting and pasting other people's work online, while your copywriting is barely legible?
Well, at least you have people to copy.
When I started out online, it was 1986.
There was nobody on the internet, so I gave it a miss until the World Wide Web launched in 1993.
I'd made my way onto it the first time in beta via my then boyfriend's work network the year before the public got access.
Funny story actually. If we get on a call sometime, ask me about it. The first thing I saw on the www before it officially launched was pretty wild. 😆
My first coaching gig was when I'd worked out how to write a year before my classmates, so the teacher asked me to help the others.
Didn't get paid for that gig. However, it kicked off my entrepreneurial DNA.
My plan to launch a coffee shop in my parents' house didn't meet with a great deal of resistance, as they didn't think I was serious, but my 6-year-old self worked out how to operate a typewriter, and I was knee deep in typed menus before I realised I also wanted to be a poet, and couldn't work out how I could do both.
But I have done both.
The Clockerfly Coffee Shop is part of my Indiepreneur Academy app, and I'm a published Author and Poet.
My spiritual work and coaching are also still a part of my daily life, half a century later.
And, yes, when I decided it would be cool to be a singer I did that too. Festivals and two albums later, I'd scratched that itch, and was deeper into my understanding of my place in the world as a bardess.
When you know who you are, at your core, you can get through anything.
And I am a bardess and indiepreneur to my core, hence my last name.
When you know who you are, own it.
Thanks to the magic of deed poll, I do.
Who are you?
Who were you before the world told you to be someone else?
I'm still that person. Just evolved, and wise from decades of honing my crafts.
But if you had your self-respect stolen from you, and you forgot who you truly are, we need to fix that.
You'll feel so much better once you resurrect your self-respect and live a life guided by purpose and authenticity.
Let's Talk Modules
Here's a taste of what you get
MODULE 1
Find Clarity of Purpose
Introduction to Module 1
Lesson 1: Identify Your Values and Passions
Lesson 2: Setting Goals That Align with Your Purpose
Lesson 3: Creating a Vision Board to Visualise Your Goals
MODULE 6
Cultivate Self-Awareness & Emotional Intelligence
Introduction to Module 6
Lesson 1: Developing Self-Awareness
Lesson 2: Understanding Emotional Intelligence
Lesson 3: Mindfulness and Meditation
Resurrect Your Self-Respect gets you out of confusion and self-doubt, and into confidence and purpose in record time. This is your ticket out of overwhelm and into genuine self-worth, rather than copy and paste fake ego rizz.
Let's get you started!
Not only will you get to be part of the FOUNDERS' COHORT in April, but you'll also get the bonuses below as a thank you for your fast and decisive action, because that's the energy that will get you the best results with this program.
I know you're going to love these bonuses for paying in full today.
Let's really fast-track your success!
- BONUS 1 --> The Patchwork Sleep System. This course teaches you how to resolve sleeplessness as an entrepreneur, so you are better refreshed to learn more, earn more, and feel better!
- BONUS 2 --> 3 Months of membership to IAM (Indiepreneur Academy Membership) including access to the community app, and access during that time both to my AI psychology course, Do Androids Dream of Electric Bees? and my solar system sales model and planner, Gravitational Planning System
- BONUS 3 --> The 1st 10 to buy get a coaching session worth nearly $1,000 with me
Your access to the cohort begins when the doors open on the 11th. But you get access to the bonuses right away.
Important. These bonuses are for paid in full only. Our thanks to you.
I'm ready to join for $597
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WHAT DOES THE FOX SAY?
Julie Syl Kalungi
Entrepreneur, Speaker, and Coach
MY LAST PIECE OF ADVICE
If you wait until you're ready, you'll be waiting for the rest of your life.
There are only so many 'feed this script into a chatbot' or 'learn how to be a ghostwriter from someone who started writing 3 weeks ago' courses you can buy. They promise the world, and deliver copy and paste BS that someone got from someone who got it from ChatGPT.
However, learning from a veteran who's been in the trenches for 3 decades is rare.
This is the start of a movement to conquer self-doubt, encourage self-worth, and resurrect self-respect.
This is your chance to be a part of it.
