Money Motivation Makes You Poor. PURPOSE Makes You Rich. Here's The Science...

First, watch this video...

Weird right? But doesn't it make sense when you think of people who make a lot of money and then fall apart? Unless the financial reward is linked to the person's purpose, the carrot is just not exciting to the bunny. Makes sense. If you're a task rabbit, and you need...

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What if the People You Love Don't See Your Vision?

Why Naysayers Suck More Than Haters

Whenever you try to level up in life, you get naysayers and haters. It's completely inevitable. In fact, I have a little saying I trot out from time to time:

Haters are the litmus test of awesome

It's true. So are naysayers. The moment that you start to state...

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Treat People With Humanity... Even The 'Jerks'

You have your dream.

You draft out your strategy.

You get some tactics.

You blend some green stuff

Hashtag 'blessed'

And then you see the trending topics.

And all the motivational quotes fall letter by letter from your screen.

Hashtag 'thoughtsandprayers'
Hashtag 'guncontrol'
Hashtag 'terrorism'
...

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If You Wait Until You're Ready, You'll Never Grow

Growing involves, well, growing. Seems obvious, right? For many people, though, it is not. They believe they can stay comfortable and move forward when they 'are ready'. The thing is that you're never ready to grow because the stage you're at and the stage you seek are different stages. To move...

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How to Find Your Voice

 

Whether you want to be a novelist, blogger, copywriter, or just post kickass social media content, you need a voice. 

What Is A Voice?

Your voice is what differentiates you from every other person on the interwebs. It's the fact that you say 'interwebs'... or 'net'... or 'Internet'....

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How to Get Stick-to-it-iveness

Nine-tenths of the formula for success is persistence. The ability to stick things out.

Stick-to-it-iveness. 

Whatever skills you learn, and whatever qualifications you amass, you're lost without this. It is a fundamental principle to success in business or any creative endeavour. ...

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The Sky Is Not The Limit. The Sky Is Limitless
  1. Old expressions keep us trapped.
  2. What is the truth? The sky is limitless. How does this affect your dreams?
  3. What limits are you putting on yourself?
  4. How are they serving you?
  5. How can you overcome them, and should you?

 

Old expressions keep us trapped

People say the sky's the limit...

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The Rule Of Thirds: How to Stop People Pleasing

I found some notes from a FB live I watched a year or so ago. The headings that follow were inspired by it, but I have no idea whose broadcast it was, or what the content was aside from the heading ideas, so thank you whomever you are. 

 

A third of the people will love you no...

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The Realities of a Narcissist/Empath Relationship

There are two ways to handle life. The first is to compartmentalise everything. Work stays at work. Home stays at home. Logic and professionalism should never be polluted by emotion and creativity. That's our standard format in the Western world. It's also the standard format of patriarchy. It...

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The Secret to Success: Give it a Go. Then Keep Going

Yoda said: "Do or do not, there is no 'try'." I love that quote. I also don't believe it's as helpful as it could be. Yes, for some people, there's a breakthrough moment when they read it. They realise that sitting on the fence is hurting, and they must simply decide, one way or the other....

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Don't Die With Your Music Still In You

Wayne Dyer said these words. He's no longer with us, but when he left the planet his music was all here for us. 

Will yours be?

How many years, or months, or weeks, or even days are you wasting while you wait to commit to your actual purpose on this planet?

You're here for a reason. You...

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Is God A Cosmic Vegetable?

I had a dream last night. In the dream, my late brother appeared. I could hear laughter from a group of people nearby who were having a light-hearted conversation. It felt like a summer party where everyone knows everyone, and all are accepted. I'm an empath. I pick up subtexts and weird...

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